밀당 literally means ‘push and pull’ and it’s usually used by girls. 밀당 is when a girl acts like she’s not interested in a guy or just really busy (she wants to show him that she has things going on in her life even though she may not have). She would answer the phone after 3 calls or reply to his messages really late just to keep/leave him hanging.
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